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Linda Morland's avatar

Good Morning Adam, I'm drinking my morning coffee and thinking about the issues in your post. At 73, I am a far different generation than many of you. Additionally, I worked as a psychiatric nurse from the 80s until I retired. Working on adolescent inpatient units, most problems stemmed from poor family systems. Often children acted out to gain the attention of parents too busy to give them much time. This can lead to depression and sometimes suicidal ideation. I recall children who were literally dumped onto a psych unit because parents were going on vacation. That type of thing isn't happening now due to insurance scrutiny (sometimes that's a good thing). Self image was and is a big factor. The eating disorder units can be awful with young women hiding severe weight loss under baggie clothes. This is a control issue. When they are unable to control anything else in their lives, they may become anorexic or bulimic. Social media can feed into this with photos and discussions about how people should look. Fortunately there is some progress as larger (traditional built) girls and women are being featured which helps to decrease body shaming. There is also much more diversity of all kinds promoted by social media. Perhaps for young people living in rural areas that are majority white and republican, social media gives them a glimpse of alternatives both in the US and around the world. Personally, I find Facebook to be a good tool for keeping in touch with friends around the country and events in my community, but I limit how much time I spend on that. The bots and scammers are all over the place. These can be difficult to identify. At least once a week I get a "friend" request from some guy who has posted very attractive pictures and frequently says he is military. DELETE!!! Do teenagers recognize the danger with these? Free speech is a foundation of our democracy so we must continue to teach others the dangers of believing what they see on social media without checking. Snopes is a good source. Thanks for the thought provoking post.

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Cindy Marshall's avatar

Thanks for this thoughtful and informative post! I appreciate what everyone contributed especially Linda's frontline experience with children's mental health!

The thing I have noticed that bothers me, is how you don't see children out playing, riding bikes or neighborhood sporting games on beautiful days!

Also, teachers have reported that most children with cell phones are on them during recesses and lunch time. Shouldn't they be socializing with each other in real time. How isolating to just have your social life online!

True I'm of a much older generation but the truth is children's brains still continue to develop into young adulthood. Let's encourage them to get vitamin D, be with friends and get away from constant use of electronics!

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